Scott tells Merritt, “[W]hen you’re the black sheep of the family, everyone is quick to judge.” (p. 278). What did you think of his statement here? Do you feel he’s correct in general, or was this specific to his own circumstances?

Scott tells Merritt, “[W]hen you’re the black sheep of the family, everyone is quick to judge. They made up their minds about you long ago. You’re in a hole you can’t get out of, no matter what you do.” (p. 278). What did you think of his statement here? Do you feel he’s correct in general, or was this specific to his own circumstances?

Yes I agreed with Scott. Everybody likes “to throw stones” at times to make themselves feel better. However, over time when a sibling keeps screwing up it’s like the boy crying wolf - you do have a hard time believing him.

I think that is generally true. People like scapegoats. If a person continues to make what others consider mistakes or often uses poor judgement, then a pattern has been established.

If you develop a reputation everyone expects you to live up to it, and like those who zero in on a suspect, people will assume you will remain true to from.

Yes the black sheep of the family is not the favorite. People will be quick to blame.

I agree that once family roles are set it is difficult to change your siblings perception. Scott seems to be trying to pull his life together, but he is seen as a failure even though he runs a multimillion dollar resort.