Luella thinks, “Papa had taught me that choosing a husband was as much about survival as it was love.” (p. 60) What did you think of this statement? Do you think it’s equally true today as it was in the 19th century?
I agree with that statement, especially during the era that the Kingdom was founded. Women needed support, protection,physical strength a man could provide and companionship. I dont think its as critical today as women have learned to make their own way. But, finding love along with that is definitely a blessing.
I think that statement was very true in the 19th century. Maybe not so much today, but it is often the case for a woman who has no other means of making it in the world. Especially if children are involved.
First of all, I applaud the fact Papa spoke to his daughter about what you should think about before committing to marriage. Papa was giving Luella permission to get on with her life, and probably expected she would continue to be Queen and help the community. I don’t think it’s equally true today because a large percentage of women are doing well financially and I think they have more of a sense of themselves than back in the 19th century. I feel choosing a husband today has more to do with being friends with each other, love, and of course how they will share financial responsibilities.
it was important then as options for women were limited. I don’t think that is true now.